To Love Or To Be Loved? Which One Would You Choose?

The most case is the guy or girl we love doesn't love us. While on the other hand, the boy or girl who loves us seems to be not charming at all in our eyes. If you love someone, or someone loves you without it being returned, it really, really hurts. What is better? To love or be loved?

Many people would like to be loved. If you think that someone should love you, then you should also learn to love yourself. That is to say, if you want to get something from the world, then adopt it yourself first. Romance begins when you can show your soul to another person. I should quote what Latin poet Ovid said:" To love,be lovable." A lovable person is someone who is natural, easy with himself or her self, radiating the simple, unaffected humanity that makes any one truly attractive.

There should be no room for selfishness in a relationship, neither room for playing with each other's feelings. We hurt each other in the most dim-witted ways possible. Sometimes we’re not careful with the one next to us and that can be tragic, because an upsetting thing, once said,cannot be taken back and that leaves marks. If we'd love each other the way we're suppose to, most of our problems would instantly melt.

Love comes tied to trust, kindness, pleasant character and some other important things. These together could make a great difference worldwide. But it's hard to get past our own selfishness and forgetting about our personal needs, to caring for the needs of others. Even in romantic relationships we don't always give what's best for our partner. It is wrong, yet, we still tend to do it. These kind of things need to change, because without love, nothing would be the same. What creates romance is the ability to see yourself lovable.

We should choose to love over being loved. It is not easy, but if we all did it, we would be giving and receiving at the same time. This world is a mirror that will show you what you are and will give you what you deserve. If you be loved by others, then you have to love others. You will get what you think you are up to!

Learn to get what you like, or you will be forced to like what you get! And I am sure that you will like to be loved not to love only! Let's choose to love.