Why We Must Love Our Parents

No matter how old a mother is , she always watches her middle aged children for signs of improvement. The happiest moments of all men's lives are always spent in the arms of a wife of another man – mother! a man with parents alive is a fifteen year old boy and remains a fifteen year old boy till they die. Parentage is the most important profession , but no test of fitness for it is ever imposed in the interest of children. Parents love their children more than anything, but at times we are so busy growing up that we often forget that even our parents are growing old, we all also must love our parents as they love us.

Every parents love their children. they consider their children as the most important and precious aspect of their lives. a hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world. Parents' love for their children is obvious from each and every effort they do for their children. They deserve to be loved back by their children. Parents are the two people which have greatest influence on our lives. They are the people we want to be with throughout our life.

Parents bring us on this earth to live life, parents rear their children with so many dreams and expectations in their eyes.but utmost expectation of a parent is to be acknowledged and loved back by the children.our parents take so much care of us that we always feel like a five year old in the absence or presence of our parents. It is a universal truth that kids often try to copy their parents. Thus the parents turn out to be the first teachers whom we admire.

Parents keep in ignoring petty issues and mistakes of their children. They have great patience and tolerance power .especially mothers in our society, take place elsewhere occupied by the fates, the system, community, mothers go on getting blamed for their children till their eighties, but never take it personally.nothing could convince our parents stop loving us they try to love us at every situation.they handle our mistakes very wisely and help us how to avoid them in future.

Whatever a kid demands, his parents try to fulfil the demand of their kid. The first demand that a kid makes by crying for milk makes the milk ooze out of a mothers breast. Similar type of this reactions keep on coming forward as a kid keep on demanding for the one thing or the other throughout his life. They may at times provide us with the basic and quintessential needs of our survival but also sacrifice their own for us.and above all , bearing all the hardships silently is what makes them "parents".

They keep on fulfilling our demands and often they have to make sacrifices in order to fulfil our demands. They do it without showing any signs of dismay or distress. They don't even mention about their sacrifices and keep on making till their death.first our parents give us life and then they try to give their own life to us.
Howsoever ungrateful a child may turn out to be but parents never show indifference. Children are always loved by their parents. Children may at times abandon their parents but a very idea of the same leaves the parents in a feeling of destitute. They smile or cry with their children.

How Should Parents Love Children Equally

As a parent have you fallen into the pattern of what you do for one child you do for the other? Do you try to ensure love children are treated equally when it comes to attention, time and things?

Perhaps it's time to look at treating your children fairly instead of equally. Fair and equal are not the same thing. Treating children equally means you treat them exactly the same. Treating children fairly means you take into account the individual needs of each child.

For example, your youngest child needs a new pair of shoes. The sibling says, "I didn't get a new pair of shoes. That's not fair!" It's important for you as the parent to point out that their sibling outgrew their shoes and needed a new pair so that was fair. Getting a new pair of shoes, when they're not needed, simply because a sibling received a new pair would be equal treatment not fair treatment and in our family we believe in being fair.

Using a fair approach instead of an equal approach might be something you are not currently doing or perhaps you are challenged with doing it as consistently as you would like. Take a close look at why you treat your children equally instead of fairly. Ask yourself some questions. Do I not want to hurt my child's feelings? Does it bother me to see my child disappointed? Am I afraid my children will think I love one of them more than the other? What message am I sending to my children when I treat them equally all of the time?

Are your children learning from you that they should expect equal treatment regardless of the situation? Does that reflect how society treats us? Life isn't always fair and it certainly doesn't always treat us equally. That's an important lesson for parents to teach their children.

I encourage you to take small steps in changing the way you treat your children. Strive to treat them fairly and not equally. If you're unable to make this change on your own it might be time to enlist the help of a parenting coach or a counselor.

How Do You Love Your Children

How do you equate love your children? Many people "love" their children by things, or activities, or events. I am not discounting that demonstration of love. However, I am pondering what loving our children looks like in a way that nourishes their heart on a day-by-day basis.

1 Be genuinely interested in them and what they are saying or doing

This is a hard in our instant, digital age. How often, when your child is talking to you, are you looking at your phone, checking your Facebook or twitter, busy at the computer, watching TV? They are talking to you or showing you something and you are only half invested. Am I the only one convicted by this? When my children come to me, I want them to never doubt that I was interested in their latest Lego creation or the problem they are having or the book they want me to sit and read. Do they really know that I am interested or do they feel like they are competing with things that are not as important as them?

2 Smile

Yes, it is that simple. Smile at them! Parents that smile more in their homes, have happier children. How can you not be happy when you smile. If my children wake up a bit grouchy, I often will smile at them, hug them, give them a little tickle…they smile and their countenance changes. If I wake up grouchy, I purposefully change my attitude before the children awake. The way my days goes with my children often depends on my attitude, if I am smiling I cannot be grouchy! PLUS, it takes more facial muscles to frown…so SMILE at those sweeties the Father has blessed you with!

3 Remember their Name and Use it

This one is so hard! When I call one of my children I often run through a list of names before I get to theirs, sometimes even adding in the dog and several cousins. Well, maybe not that bad, but I know you know where I am coming from. When we use someone's name, it makes them feel special. Use your child's name and when you need them use the right name! I am always amazed how their physical posture and countenance changes when I call them by their name in a loving way.

4 Listen when they talk

Let them talk and really listen. Don't already be formulating answers to their questions or solutions to their problems. Listen with your heart, listen with your eyes. Look at them. We are often so eager to move on and find a solution that we don’t stop and take the time to listen to what they really need. Sometimes, it is not a solution they are looking for, but to know you really care. Be mindful, talk less, and listen more!

5 Do things that help them feel important

I do not mean go spend money here!! Allow them to help you make dinner, mow the grass, ask their opinion about something that effects them, spend one-on-one time with them in their bedroom playing a game or talking. Many times our actions do not match up with our words. We give lip service to loving our family and them being the number one priority in our lives, but we don't do the little things that make them KNOW, without a doubt, that they hold that place in our hearts. It is different for every child. Be discerning to what activities make your child feel important. It will not be the same for every child. They often will tell you or show you what they need if you listen and watch. Talk less and slow life down.

These are challenging ways to purposefully love our children. Sometimes, honestly, it is easier to buy something or take them somewhere. But the question that begs answering is that really in their best interest or is it easier for us?

My challenge for you, is to pray through these 5 ways of loving and pick one each week that you will begin practicing. For many, it will require change of habits, it will require slowing life down, it will require getting out of our comfort zone.

Shaun Of the Dead Is Really A Good Love Story

I hate romance movies, but I'm crazy about a good love story. What's the difference? Well, romances are the movies that guys typically don't want to see. Movies like The Notebook or any crap flick that has two young beautiful people on the poster.

These are movies where if someone asked you the plot you'd have to say, well, a guy falls in love with a girl and then tragedy strikes and then they try to keep loving each other a lot no matter what! But I find that the best love stories are far more under the radar. They're usually mixed up with plots that have their own lives and momentum. Indeed, some of my all-time favorite love stories are in a variety of genres that no one ever called romance. Which love stories? Glad you asked! Oh, you didn't ask? Wait, you're not even reading this introduction because you jumped right to the first numbered entry? Oh, OK. By the way, that kinda sucks because you never heard me scream, "SPOILERS BELOW!"

Shaun of the Dead is one of the funniest movies I've ever seen and it's based on a simple premise: When zombies start popping up around England, a 30-something slacker and a group of friends must fight for survival. That's it. Like any zombie movie, people get torn apart and eaten, and like anything Simon Pegg is in, it's really funny. But for me, in addition to all of that, Shaun of the Dead is the best love story in the last 10 years.

Lots of comedies have a love interest in their B stories. They're tacked on so Ben Stiller or Vince Vaughn have someone to kiss after they do something funny, but that's not what Shaun of the Dead does. At the start of the movie, Shaun's long-term girlfriend Liz breaks up with him because he is apathetic about everything in his life, including their relationship. All he wants to do is hang out with Liz and his friends at the pub, whereas Liz craves change and excitement. Their relationship just lumbers on with little energy and direction.

But when the zombie apocalypse strikes, Shaun risks his life to find Liz and keep her safe. Does he become a super zombie killer of Bruce Campbell Evil Dead proportions? No, but he also doesn't cut his girlfriend's head off with a chainsaw, so there's that.

Shaun does, however, put his life in jeopardy over and over and does what he thinks is right, all for the purpose of protecting his girlfriend. And when the movie's over, he hasn't become a better man worthy of her love. He's the same man, but Liz knows him better. She sees the difference between Shaun's desire for simple comforts and apathy. He's not apathetic. He loves her completely and would do anything for her, but what he wants to do most is just hang out. It seems real. It feels right. And it's telling that a movie about an unexplained zombie apocalypse still has a love story that makes more sense than Titanic's.

Why Real Love Requires Self Love

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“We are want to condemn self-love; but what we really mean to condemn is contrary to self-love. It is that mixture of selfishness and self-hate that permanently pursues us, that prevents us from loving others, and that prohibits us from losing ourselves.” ~ Paul Valery, French Poet, 1871 - 1945
DR. LISA LOVE REFLECTIONS

As a counselor I have often told people that they need to learn to love themselves. Yet, while saying this to others, I have at times taken pause to reflect and ask myself, “What does that really mean? How do we know the difference between a self-love and a selfish love? And, what can we do practically to love ourselves in the right way?” Perhaps the quote above holds a clue, because I believe true self love fills us with enough joy, peace, and love that our desire to be loving human beings grows.
Because of this we want to express more empathy, compassion, and understanding towards others. Selfish love does the contrary. It increases our sense of self-loathing or our disdain and anger towards others. It causes us to act increasingly in our own best interests without considering the interests of others. It causes us to want to sacrifice others needs and desires in service to our own, instead of the other way around. Or, it causes us to self-destruct through a number of behaviors that may feel good temporarily, but ultimately they lead to the shutting down of our hearts and spiral us downward into increased self-loathing and self-reproach.
How then do we love ourselves in the right way? By first and foremost learning what love is. Then, by insisting that we feed ourselves with that love. This is best done by finding people who know how to love. From them we learn how to adopt loving mindsets, feelings, and behaviors.
And, it is done by setting boundaries on people who don’t know how to encourage the greatest level of love in us. Because when we truly have that kind of love in our lives we are increasingly a blessing to others. Which is why real love requires that we love ourselves in the right way, so we can have the strength to love, the wisdom to love, and the energy to love those who need our love the most.

Do You Want A Romantic Evening

Does the date corny the year? A strictly business day, driven only to make people buy, buy and buy? Yes, many have this vision of Valentine or Valentine’s Day traditionally celebrated each February 14. But let’s face it, is the perfect excuse for an unforgettable encounter with our love, no want to miss these tips for a romantic evening… And we bet that none will leave this page without reading!
For the upcoming Valentine’s Day, or for tonight or any night of the year, you must apply these romantic tips for the best quote of your life with your love. And unmarried note that sooner or later will touch you. Hands up for the best romantic evening! Here are the tricks, simple but infallible we collect to spice up your relationship.
A gift
A surprise for your boyfriend in a memorable night for the two can come from the hand of a gift. Especially if it comes to your Valentine’s intimate celebration! The best advice to purchase the gift indicated? As simple as asking what is needed, or give him what he likes, from clothes, perfumes, accessories, technology objects, books, your favorite music … You know what, sure give a target with a gift they will love.
Reason Book

If you are a creative woman, we like crafts and want to surprise him with a unique gift, romantic and truly original do not miss the memorandum book of love. Undoubtedly the most beautiful and adorable gifts are those we do with our own hands. The book is perfect for Valentines Day: it is bound few cards or old cards, each written with a reason why you love your lover. See the complete step by step making this adorable gift. Do not miss it! We loved it.
Hidden Treasure
Did you think the gift wrap and give it in his hand, like birthdays? How boring you are! We propose that for this romantic evening play the classic hidden treasure. Write several tracks on scraps of paper and hide them in order to go the way of marking you find your gift. A tip? Make tracks are romantic for example, “the next track is between the pages of the book you gave me in the last anniversary”.
The ideal environment
For the really fabulous intimate evening should be in every detail. While it is obvious that your boyfriend will not pass your finger over the furniture to see if they shine or if it was a little dust, believe that a clean, tidy and decorated for the occasion influence the romantic atmosphere that you create. Do the rules? Turn off lights and Candlelight (If they are aromatic, the better) and put a little music, which both prefer. They can be romantic ballads to the “mellow” or fun topics to dance and laugh.

Lovers Quarrel Can Improve The Affection Between Them

An association of men who will not quarrel with one another is a thing which has never yet existed, from the greatest confederacy of nations down to a town meeting or a vestry.How horrible, fantastic, incredible, it is that we should be digging trenches and trying on gas-masks here because of a quarrel in a faraway country between people of whom we know nothing.

Every now and then, no matter how close and intimate a couple is, an argument occasionaly looms to create a tide in the relationship. Although sometimes it shakes a relationship down to its very core, if handled well, it is healthy and

In a relationship, petty disagreements and misunderstandings are unavoidable. Couples are predisposed to bickering, and the longer they're together, the better they get at it. While some couples can swear they've never raised their voices to one another or stormed off in the heat of the moment, more explosive and passionate arguments can be extremely cathartic - and sexy.

Jealousy is a natural human emotion. It is not negative in itself. How people react to jealous feelings make it negative.

Usually, jealousy stems from the lack of trust or lack of assurance from one's partner. It can also come from a low self-image or an inferioriy complex. If you're the jealous one, learn to act by reason and not by emotion. Your jealousy is just a product of your own mental-emotional patterns that only exist in your head. Just because your lover admired something about another person, does not mean that you are loved any less, or that the person is more attractive than you are. Voice out how you feel to your partner so that you can discuss things and he can help you alleviate your jealousy. If your partner is the green-eyed monster, assure him of your devotion and reassure him of his innate worth as your love mate. Perhaps your partner needs more attention and affection than you are giving him.

When you're going through the honeymoon phase of your relationship, money may not be much of an issue. Nonetheless, as the relationship progresses, power struggles and control issues around money may just start surfacing. This creates tension that if not resolved, can put a serious damper on the relationship. Where critical differences exist in your financial expectations, try to negotiate. Work out a way of managingyour finances that gives you both some control. In any case, if one is earning more than the other, he/she shouldn't hold all the control because even if the other is contributing less in the financial aspect, that does not mean he/she is contributing any less in other areas of the relationship. Over all of this, if there are still issues, sit and talk things over. Discussion and cooperation may not confer instant solutions to difficultfinancial issues, but knowing you and your partner agree about how to approach the situation will help maintain the zing in your relationship.

Arguments by nature are difficult and can even be hurtful and frustrating. And yet, they are a normal natural aspect of any relationship. Like the salt to meat dishes, they add flavor to the lives of couples and help build better relationships. On the other hand, if disputes are handled poorly, they can also potentially wreck a strong relationship. So, in order to avoid this, every disagreement should be carefully handled in a way that would boost relationship satisfaction and pave the way for new growth together. Truly, it's fun to fight and make up (and out) after knowing you have worked together through it all.

Religious matters can be touchy, mainly because people tend to either feel very strongly about their faith or are not too concerned with spirituality at all. Trying to argue with someone over his or her religious beliefs is often a hopeless battle, so if it affects your lifestyle to the point where change is essential, you might be waiting a long time. Religious beliefs can affect everything from political and social views to child-rearing and financial decisions.

If you're someone who doesn't feel that strongly about any faith in particular, adapting to and accepting your partner's beliefs may not be too difficult, even if you don't necessarily agree as wholeheartedly as he or she does. But if you strongly disagree with the other person's religious views, it may be one argument that is never truly over.

Will You Accept Any Mistress

The Mistress is more than the woman on the side. She is not the booty call, the girlfriend, the side-piece and contrary to popular notion, she really is not the other woman. The Mistress is vertically on the same level as the Wife or even higher. The Mistress tends to be very well-educated, doesn't take crap from anyone and she can hold her own in society. She is financial secure, and doesn't really need to be supported by any man. She is involved with a married man because of numerous reasons known only to her.
　　
Just what? How can you inquire this type of concern? Are you joking myself? Now don't you know that mistresses are usually evil? Even though this is likely to be useful in a few conditions, I alternatively choose the concept involving "Mistress" and frequently do it inside my communications.
　　
The phrase originates from the French term "Maistresse" which is the womanly model in the phrase "Master". Additionally, the "Mrs." front associated with lots of female names is in fact limited for "Mistress". The definition is actually of the female who's going to be capable connected with authority, that in charge around a thing or even anyone. The definition of afterwards reached suggest a held girl by a wedded gentleman, but I as an alternative choose the original which means and also abbreviation.
　　
Any Mistress can feel when the transference of power to her occurs. The husband is talking to her more. He is helping her more with her stuff and he finds more time to spend with her. He will not walk away from her because she offers some excitement to his life. It can be asked why he doesn't leave his wife. Well, there could be many reasons. He may have children with the wife and he doesn't want to leave his children, or he's not a hundred percent sure of where he really wants to be. He may be fighting within himself regarding the need to be really happy. If he finds his time with the Mistress enhances his relationship with his wife, then he is still wrestling with what he really wants and where he really wants to be. He may be feeling guilty about leaving the wife because she is innocent to an extent, but when the wife begins to act like the Mistress, then the Mistress has the power. Even if she never gets to marry the man, knowing that the wife is trying to be like her and that the husband prefers to spend time with her than with the wife, then the Mistress has all the power she needs. She knows she has it in her power to turn the wife's world upside down just by continuing to be her. The Mistress has her own identity and if she is not trying to imitate the wife, although the wife is trying to imitate her, then she is the one with all the Power.
　　
So what does the first point are locked up in the phrase the word "Mistress"? Basically set almost everything. I consider that "Mistress" is really what God created when He designed Eve. She was designed to be considered a help mate to Adam, to bear infants, to work the actual position, and then to guide line at least creation with her partner. Proverbs 31 describes this type of female exactly who served her spouse, did the trick outside of the abode, brought up young ones, monitored a household, and also handled servants. Mention hard-working and also self-assured and confident!

　　
In general, men are liars. They are driven to say whatever it takes to get what they want. "You understand me more that's why I love you more than my wife."- Never let this enter your head. This is usually a defense mechanism of a philandering man to justify his guilt for having a you. Enjoy every moment when he is showering you with sweet nothings but be on top of it. A mistress should have an ally- and there's no better perfect ally than his lover's assistant or secretary. You should know how to have a rapport with his lover's secretary- for two main reasons- to keep tract of his lover and to cover-up for them.

　　
Do you want the safety of the mistress? There is no substitute for realizing who you areas an element of The lord's conception, exactly how your becoming is a component of a greater project and how you had been made with a purpose. The mistress is secure in her own location associated with ability plus her purpose in daily life. She fails to spend your time on currently being a thing that she was not created to become alternatively she's devoted to staying the best she will be. There is superb security is determined to excel at exactly what God designed that you do.
　　
So, I am going to ask once more, are you wanting a mistress that you experienced? Rather then looking for another person to be the mistress, you could be that mistress. You may follow the mind of these mistress and you could claim the protection of your mistress. And subsequently moment a person add "Mrs." On your identify, you may be doing the work along with purpose and not simply beyond custom.
　　
Have you figured out who has the most power as yet? Well, it's the woman who does not have to change her identity to match the other woman in order to capture the man's attention. She can hold her own and is not defined by the relationship that she is having. She does not judge herself and she has a lot of confidence. Overall, a Mistress always has more power and influence.

Tips To Help Your Husband Make The Choice To Love You Again

Love is a wonderful feeling between two people, that ends in a long lasting relationship. It does come with a set of compromises, understandings, needs which have to be fulfilled, and reacting to the physical and emotional needs of each other. A financial instability can also be the cause for a drift in a relationship. So the question of how to get my love back is very important for us.

It is the mutual understanding of each other, and the maturity they show in their relationship that will last forever. But if there is any trouble, how to get your love back? especially after years of relationship. Effective communication between partners and advice from the right people at the right time will solve this problem.

The relationship with your man has ended up and obviously the rapport did not turn up well. You must be wondering in your heart that the relationship did not conclude on the note it should have been. Well, now you want your beau back in life since the love is still high in the air with you but the question is how to get your love back?

Marriage is a sacred union no matter what a lot of people including celebrities seem to believe. It is not something to just be tossed aside when the mood strikes or when things get too difficult.

If you are willing to fight for your man especially if there are children involved, here are some tips on how to get your husband back, stop divorce and rekindle the flame in your marriage. Love is a choice so follow these tips to help your husband make the choice to love you again.

1. Say No To Your Emotions

The first step is to get control of your emotions. If your husband wants a divorce immediately but you are refusing to acquiesce to his demands because you are willing to fight for your marriage, he may say a lot of hurtful things to you including the aforementioned that he has never been in love with you, in order to get a rise out of you and get your to do what he wants.

Do not let him push your buttons. Do not let your emotions get the best of you which will make it easy for you to sign those divorce papers. One of you has to be the adult. If your marriage is worth saving, be the adult and do not hold grudges and learn to forgive him even without him asking you or even wanting you to.

2. Listen To Him

Except for when he asks you for a divorce of course, but otherwise take the time to ask him what is really upsetting him and listen to what he has to say. Even if he wants to gripe about you, simply listen to him and do not get defensive. Sometimes couples get so busy that they stop talking to each other, so show him that he is important enough for you to listen to him. Before you know it, you will be the first person he thinks about when he has something on his mind that he needs to get off his chest.

3. Show Him How Much You Care

The third tip on how to get your husband back and get him to fall in love with you again is to show him that you care about him. This may involve doing little things like preparing his favorite meals without him asking, romantic gestures, date nights if he is willing, etc.

Even when he is behaving like an ogre, remember the butterflies he used to give you when you first met and started dating. Get into that mindset. It will help you forgive him and continue fighting for your marriage.

4. Time

Another tip on how to get your husband back is to give him time to work through whatever he has to work through without giving him any ultimatums.

What Do You Think Of The Older Women Dating Younger Men?

They say, love is not an easy task. It takes the heart of a lion and the mind of a woman to get through it! Well, since I am the one who says it, I agree! Love comes with its set of difficulties, and impossibilities. Difficulties at the time when you just cannot concentrate on anything because the thought of your loved one keeps coming in the way of your focus. Impossibilities when you need to get out of the soft embrace of the one you love, but somehow, can't seem to manage it! Well, yes, love is a herculean task. But it is one that completes one's life, and makes it so much more worthwhile!

It’s possible that you may have asked yourself before “older women dating younger men, does it work?” The truth is, YES. Younger men are starting to realize the benefits of dating older women, and how it can normally have more benefits as opposed to a younger girl. In realization of this, let me tell you a few relevant topics related to cougar women dating younger guys for further helping you understand how it can be a fascinating and amazing thing to do for yourself or try out.

Older women dating younger men, does it work?

If you’ve ever asked yourself “older women dating younger men, does it work?” you should know it absolutely does work! Younger guys will often find it’s much harder for them to find a girl there age who will cooperate and love them without causing problems. As for older women, it’s typical to find older men who have had a lot of past problems or are “set in their own ways”. If you do the math, these 2 common problems both parties often experience lead to the same road between one another, creating what some people call as cougar dating.

What are the Benefits of Older Women Dating Younger Men?

If you've also ever asked yourself the question "what are the benefits of older women dating younger men", Some older women dating younger men benefits includes how older women are more mature, how younger men have more energy to do those little tasks asked for by the women, how younger men are more active, and how older women already have a good idea of what guys want.

What are Some of the Benefits of Dating Older Women?

The first thing that fits under what are some of the benefits of dating older women is how older women already have a good idea of what men want. They have already lived there live a little, perhaps even dated a few guys in the past, and they already have a good idea of some of the things a young male might be looking for in a relationship.

The second thing that fits under What are Some of the Benefits of Dating Older Women is how older women are more mature. They don’t complain about “how their nails look” or “talk about how messy their hair is”. You get the point. Older women normally go into more serious and informative discussions. This is just one major mature trait of older women.

What are Some of the Benefits of Dating Younger Men?

The first thing that fits under what are some of the benefits of dating younger men is how younger men generally have much more energy than say an older man. They are young, energetic, and have the ability to do a lot of what you ask them to do.

The second thing that fits under what are some of the benefits of dating younger men is how younger men are generally more willing to do those little tasks you ask of them. They realize that you’re in command partly because of your age, and they want to please you in every way possible.
Where older women and younger men meet for the first time

With all this said, you can find where older women and younger men meet for the first time along with a social site like Facebook if you look in the correct places. There are many different cougar dating sites with ads all over the place, poor customer service, and a small database of older women and younger men. But if you find high a huge database over cougar dating with a strong customer service team and everything else, you have the ability to enter an exciting relationship pretty quickly.

Tips For Making Sweet Love To A Woman

Are you completely out of ideas on things to do to make your girl reach her pleasure peak during sex? If so, then you are in big trouble. You need to keep your girl satisfied in bed if you want her to stay true to you - did you know that? If you don't fulfill her carnal pleasures, then you have to be ready for the off-chance that she chooses to look for somebody who CAN satisfy her in that way.

Somebody told me that sweet love helps a woman get what she wants from a man. It's that pleasant feeling of being in love or when you do nice things for your man.

I love to be around people who are kind, loving and available. You can freely turn to them when in need. But just how much can this be of help in a relationship? It is said that nice girls don't go far in whatever they want to do.

Love notes can add spice to your relationship by letting your partner or love interest know that they are on your mind. When writing a love note remember to keep it short and simple. A sweet love note should be no more than three sentences long. It should begin with a salutation and end with a sweet memorable close.
Now, there is no need for you to be an expert at playing golf or anything just to get girls to grovel at your feet. However, you Do have to know the following deadly sex tips if you want a never-ending line of girls to wait to go on dates with you. Read on to find out what these 5 deadly sex tips are and start giving girls the greatest orgasms they have ever experienced...

Deadly Sex Tip #1: Shock her with a surprise. You have to catch girls by surprise if you want to amp up their sexual desires for you in an instant. See, if you start falling into routines that are completely boring and predictable, chances are that you will suffer from sexual monotony and get sent down the drainpipe with other losers before you.

If you want a way of surprising her that she would truly never suspect, try and convince her to do the deed in public places! To avoid shocking her too much, you can begin by having some fun in your own back garden, for instance. Who says you have to go out to have "sex in public" anyway?

Deadly Sex Tip #2: Shock her with spontaneity. You need to bring the old flames back if you want to keep things going with your girl. Pretend like it is your first time sleeping with her, if you must. This is sure to make things sizzle in bed all over again if your fire has long gone out.

Deadly Sex Tip #3: Shock her imagination. Get your girl incredibly aroused by working on her fantasies and imagination instead of her body. If you want to fire up her brain with sex, try out some sexy games.

You could also opt to read some erotic stories and novels together. Then, try to get her to open up and share her deep and dark sex secrets with you. This could go very far; you have no idea!

Deadly Sex Tip #4: Shock her hot spots. Girls tend to have their personal "sensual spots" that can trigger intense pleasures out of them when hit. However, not a lot of guys pay attention to these spots, so your girl will definitely be in for a surprise if you start looking for them and focusing on them more than before. Find out where they are now!

To locate these spots without telling your girl you're looking for them, be more aware of how she reacts to spots that you touch. If she moans louder at one particular spot, you will know you have found one. These spots need to be focused on if you want your girl to really explode with pure pleasure.

Deadly Sex Tip #5: Shock her with your superpowers. Various advanced and highly effective sex tips also exist that you can learn to amp up your sexual superpowers, one of which is even known to make girls orgasm without a single touch!

Here's a killer tip -If you are able to make a woman climax just by using your voice alone, then you will be able to make a woman sexually addicted to you.

End A Love Triangle To Help You Get Out Of It

Are you in love with another man or woman while still being in a relationship with someone? The obvious consequences are an unhappy relationship, adultery and three broken hearts. Quoting the character Earl Smooter from the movie Sweet Home Alabama, "You can't ride two horses with one ass, sugarbean". You know you are in a love triangle when you have two suitors of whom there is a preference for one over the other OR when your beloved is in love with someone else. Love triangles can get very messy. You may be in someone's life and you may have deep admiration and fondness for them. But, you cannot continue this forever. Do you know how to get out of a love triangle? Maybe you don't. Love does switch off a part of your brain and everything becomes so complicated and confusing. It is okay if you don't know what to do, which is why I have explained the solution from the shoes of all three sides of the triangle.

When You are the 'Other' Person
It is always difficult to be the other woman or man in your lover's life. You don't enjoy the rights that you should as a partner. Your love gets no acknowledgment before the world. You have to keep it all under the sheets and then even share the love with someone else who rightfully claims their ownership over your lover's heart. Love makes us do crazy things... even willingly being the 'other' person. But, you need to get out of it with or without your lover. Else you will forever be stuck in a rut. Ending a love triangle is not so easy but you need to tell your lover that they can only be on either side. Tell them to either choose you or go back to where they came from. It's about time you claim what is yours and what you deserve. And once you have made the decision to leave, stay determined because a fickle mind is a battle lost. The grief of separation will be present but if you truly promise to recuperate, you will find yourself in no time in the arms of a lover who respects and loves you unconditionally. You just need to believe in yourself and stop letting your insecurities prevent you from achieving the happiness that you deserve.

When You are in Love with Two People
Are you in love with two people? That is such a complicated situation. You are not with this one completely and you are not with that one either. What are you doing? Being in love with two people is like keeping your heart in a love limbo, a place where you will never be able to move on and enjoy a relationship, be with someone and be sure of it. You are preventing all three of you from moving on. The attention of two lovers is exciting but it serves no good when you cannot fully commit to even one. Not to forget, the guilt of it all that prevents you from having a healthy relationship with either of your lovers. Even if you are secretly in love with the second person and he/she does not know it, don't even tell. You need to get that person out of your thoughts. Out of sight, out of mind. This is easier than you think it is because every person can control his/her mind. If you cannot, you will remain helpless. You have to choose either of the two people and then decide to be with one of them. Time mends everything and you will see that with time, you will be over the other person before you even know it.

When You are in Love Outside Your Relationship
Even when the general perceptions are that a person cannot fall in love with two people at the same time, our cinema is full of movies based on love triangles. It does happen in real life too. If you are the person in love with two people, you know it definitely does! It is a love addiction. So, how are you going to get out of this love triangle? You need to make a decision. You are essentially cheating on both your partners and in the process, hurting all three of you. Those who know, may think you are lucky to deserve the love of two people, but, inside your heart you know the complication of your actions that may rock your life like an explosive storm suddenly, any day. Aren't you just tired already of shuttling and hiding your affair? The tension of getting caught may be giving you the thrills, but you cannot act so selfishly especially towards the people you love. You have to let one of them go, don't delay that decision. Now is the time, not later. You will end up hurting one of them but at least you will let them go and get the love of one person wholly.
You may make your choices based on the circumstances in your life. You love both of them but, now, you will have the chance to give all your love to one person just the way they give it to you. Stick to your decision and vow never to repeat your mistake again. Love affairs can turn very ugly and end up in grotesque crimes. Get out of it before it comes and gets you!

When You Find Out about your Partner's Infidelity
Nothing can kill you more than knowing that the one you love so dearly is not even in love with you. Worse, he/she loves someone else. You may feel betrayed and foolish. What are you going to do now about this situation? The best thing to do is to accept the truth and confront your partner on it. If you keep mum about it or pretend to be blind, you will make yourself fall harder into a pit of pain. You will also unwillingly encourage your partner to continue with such kind of a behavior. Are you willing to stay in this relationship and make it work? Then, first, ask your partner what he/she wants. Give them an ultimatum that you expect their answer by a certain period. Give yourself time too and do not communicate. If you want to work it out, do not admit unless your partner does and tells you that they are willing to mend their ways. Start afresh. Is that not the option for you? Vent your anger on him and express your disappointment, then, try to get over the breakup.

It is not easy ending a love triangle, but you will thank yourself later and live happily after, minus a third person. You will breathe a sigh of relief. Nobody wants to be in such a love turmoil because then it starts messing with your head and your life. You will never be truly happy from the inside because there will only be short-lived and fleeting moments of happiness. Ultimately, your inner voice will haunt you until you get yourself out of it and never go back.

How Do You Truly Make A Man Love You?

If you have ever been in love, you may have experienced how it actually feels like to be blinded by it. People in love longed to visualise it. Shakespeare also mentioned in many of his plays that Love is blind, and Lovers cannot see. Will blinded love lead to endless mistakes and regrets? Logically speaking, Love can choose to be blind, but lovers should not be. In its truest sense, the ideology that love is blind does not and even if it does, should not exist but the benefit of every man and woman who is seeking love.

You want him to want you for more than just trivial matters, like physical intimacy. In fact, you want him to stay and commit, and moreover you need him to love you, and want to be with you... not just for a few moments, but indefinitely. But how do you bring a guy to a stage where he is confessing his love? How do you truly make a man love you?

With the rate at which relationships break up, married or not, being well over 50% it should be pretty obvious that people are simply not getting it. What aren't they getting? They aren't getting the opposite sex. People do not understand their counterparts, and here is where you fit into the role too: most women do not understand how a man's mind works.

They don't get men. In fact, right now, you don't get men either. That is why you are here, reading this. but, I am not saying any of this to make you feel bad though, in fact, I am telling you this to show you a key point: the key to making a man fall in love with you, is  how the male mind works. In essence, the key is to understand men.

Now while women can never know everything about a man, what women can do is learn the universal truths. Universal truths are facts that are always constant regardless of the situation or circumstance. It basically means that there are certain things which are true for every man, and all are affected by it.
It is your job then, to learn these truths, and use them to understand men, so that they can feel like you "get" them, which leads a man to feel comfortable enough to want to love you.

1. Men Hide and GUARD Their Emotions Excessively
You see, every man has weak spots. Every man has areas where he will give in, and where he absolutely needs to be tended to or taken care of. While they MAY act like they can handle it all, and they don't need anything from anyone....the truth of it all, is that is just a cover for his weaknesses.
You see, men are afraid to let you know how much they are affected by you, because it would mean he is revealing a loss of power, weakness. It means he is giving you the power to control him from that point on, because now you can take him down easily if you wanted to.

The key here is that man will love you, if he is ABLE to first trust you enough with his emotions, secrets, and weaknesses....wherein you don't make fun of him for it, you don't use it against him once you do know, and wherein you aren't making him feel like you are manipulating that knowledge to gain certain things from him.

In order to do this, you have to be extremely accepting and non-judgmental whenever a man reveals personal or truly intimate things about himself. Be supportive, let him know he can trust you with his secrets, and that you are not going to use them against him.

2. Expect Only Of Yourself
Instead of always holding him up to your standards, and instead of always expecting him to act, speak, and be a certain way; place your expectations on yourself. Whenever you expect from a man, and tell him to be a certain way, you are in essence informing him that you do not accept him as he is.

This makes him feel like you simply do not get him, and causes him to withdraw and makes it impossible for him to love you. Why be around him, if you want him to change so much, and be someone else for you?

A man can learn to love you, only if you first let him know that it is ok for him to be himself to begin with. Not only this, but when you expect of him, you put an intense amount of pressure on him which he cannot always fulfill. It makes you seem needy as well; which in turn does not make a man feel comfortable around you.
Expecting from yourself lets a man know that you take responsibility, and that you are able to handle yourself. It gives him a chance to admire you on a deeper level, because he has a chance to see you being independent, strong, and it gives him time to concentrate on who you are, instead of always spending his time trying to fix things or change.

Remember that the less needy and expectant of him you are, the more a man will be attracted, because it gives him a chance to think of you on a deeper level, because you are no longer 'easy'... but rather present yourself instead as this rare gem he can't help but want.

 

Super Easy Tips To Win Love Back

Love is not easy. Believe me,love was never easy. Love is something you cannot live without.Love is something you cannot live with. You love you are in pain and you dont love you miss the pain. What a crucial condition,what to do to love or not to love?

Love brings an ecstacy, enlightment,energy in life.Love takes away emptiness within you. it gives you a reason to live.Love makes you understand everything, it needs endurance.Endurance to bear the pain, the pain of seperation. a sweet pain.

Relationships are complicated. We all know that. Break ups tend to be even more complex.  If you love your ex still your emotions will feel like they're completely unstable. You'll go from crying one moment to anger the next. Beneath the surface of all that is a desire to erase what just happened so you can be back with the person you adore. Too bad life isn't that easy. Although getting someone back can be a challenge, it's actually not as hard as you may think it is. There are a few super easy tips to get your ex to notice you again that can help get you on the track to reconciliation.

Getting the one you love back is all about pushing certain psychological triggers within them. You want them to feel compelled to come back to you because they just can't imagine another day without you. To you, the best approach to take to make that happen may be to tell them how you feel. It certainly seems logical but it doesn't work. If you go to your ex and pour your feelings out to them it's probably going to make them incredibly uncomfortable. So much so that they'll pull back and break off contact.

One way to push those psychological triggers is to act as though you're perfectly content with the way things are now. If every time your ex sees you, you have a smile on your face and a bounce in your step they're going to automatically assume you're over them. It's going to hurt them in ways they never even imagined. The human heart is funny in that even if you reject someone, if they reject you too, you're going to want them back. It's that plain and simple. Rejection is a bitter pill to swallow. You're just going to use it in a compassionate way and instead of telling your ex you're done with them, you'll let your actions tell the story.

Some people will suggest that you start dating again as a way to push your ex into seeing that they're going to lose you. I don't advise you do this for a number of reasons. Most importantly, if you're trying to get back the person you love don't allow them to see you with someone else or hear about it from anyone. This creates a mental picture that is impossible to shake. They'll imagine you being very close to the new person and that will kill your ex lover's interest very quickly. You'll fare much better and accomplish a great deal more if you go out with groups of friends. Ensure that there are some folks of the opposite gender there as well.

Then when your ex gets wind that you're going out they'll just hear it's with a group and that will be enough to make their mind wander but not enough for them to jump to damaging conclusions about you.

How To Avoid Extramarital Affair

If you find yourself in the midst of an extramarital affair, you may be trying to figure out what to do next: does this mean the end of your relationship with your partner, or do you think you can find your way back to a loving relationship?

Here are 5 ways back to love.
1. Decide how you really feel about your partner: If you are having an affair, you have likely put any serious thoughts about your relationship with your spouse or partner on the back burner. The thrill or excitement of an affair - at least at the beginning - can serve as a drug that keeps you from seriously facing your real relationship. This state of limbo between two relationships can last for a while, but eventually you will find the need to come back around and face your previous/current relationship with your long-term partner. Ask yourself whether you really have the love for your partner to try make things work.

2. Determine whether you will share your indiscretion: Provided that you do decide you would like to really commit faithfully to your partner, you will have to determine whether it makes the most sense to share news about your affair with him or her or whether to keep it to yourself. This is a very personal decision, and only one that you can rightfully make. Ultimately, it boils down to your own sense of ethics and also your sense of what will make the both of you the happiest.
3. Get some professional help with your relationship: Should you successfully end your affair, the fact that you have had an extramarital affair undoubtedly means you have some serious issues in your relationship that you need to face. Whether you choose to see a therapist by yourself or to do so together with your partner, do seek professional help. You will find that a therapist can really help you work through your issues and increase the chances for a successful relationship.

4. Renew your commitment to your partner: If you want to avoid the chance of having another affair in the future, you must renew your commitment to your partner in your heart. If you are just staying with your spouse or partner because you are afraid of the changes that will come if you leave the relationship, you are doing both of you a disservice. You need to really commit to your love in order to make it work again.

5. Completely end all contact with your recent lover: The way back to your love with your partner includes a final, essential step: cutting off all contact with the person with whom you had the affair. Keeping them on the line or even talking with them periodically means that you are holding a little part of yourself open to the possibility of future untoward contact with that person. Best to let that relationship go completely so that you can focus on being with your spouse or partner and making it work.

The way back to love after an affair is not an easy one. You first need to get in touch with the part of you that knows how you really feel about your partner. Then, if you do decide to commit to your relationship again, you need to psychologically, spiritually, and energetically commit to letting go of the fling you are having and instead focus all of your attention on your partner. You can have the love you deserve, but it requires 100% commitment from your heart.

The Question:Why Do Men Love Women

What have women got that men just can't stop going crazy over them? Is it because of love or lust? What makes those two diverge? At the early age of puberty, men feels fascinated to women. They have the penchant also to be attracted to older girls even at the age of 7. This is because older girls are a lot sexier and attractive. It looks they see their mother in older girls. Younger men feel pampered by older women. Older women tend to understand younger men more particularly in their mood. But as they grow older, men love women younger than them or at their age.

How can you actually define love or differentiate love from lust? Is it love that men felt when they spot a woman and feel something? Well I could declare that it would take time to finally conclude that what he or she feels is already that issue called love.

Love is past physical, it is something you can't touch. When you can forgive and forget what a person has caused you, then that is love.

Lust, on the other hand is still an feeling that is merely physical.This is linked with the feeling of craving a person sexually but oftentimes leads to Love and wanting to impart something beyond physical.

You can say you really love a person if in a longer span of time, you remain fascinated to him or her physically and later on turned into something sensitively distinctive.

Steps to draw men:
1) Fill up your love tank- love the people surrounding you, welcome their decency, love yourself. Men are more fascinated to women who illustrate that they are to be respected and valued. Friends can help particularly affectionate and wonderful friends. It will present in your well-being if you are full of love and when you are full of love, you can love others already.

2) Cook up Love - Be the master of the kitchen and attract your man through his stomach.
3) Be yourself - While men loves being pursued, most men still love to chase women. Shine in other things so he would perceive you; for example if he is a school mate then excel in the classroom. If he is a neighbor who doesn't even give a look, then start by giving the mother some new recipes to cook. Act as if he's not your goal and let him target you instead.

Men are born polygamous and they tend to glance elsewhere and this is extremely important when looking for a mate. We don't know for sure how to keep his attention unless of course if he really loves you that much not to consider hurting your feelings. You have to take the chance, for it might be precious in the end and anyway life is a risk you have to take and that incorporates loving someone.

Men have crabbiness too that need women to shut up so it is important to know the nature of men. Listen and don't nag but be sharp in studying the thin line that separates listening and enabling your partner to fool you. Solving troubles in a relationship is in the hands of a woman. It is hard for women to keep their men and keep them interested with them all the time. Keep you man enthralled with you through these steps:

1) The center of a relationship should be reliance.Faith and trust must at all times be present.

1) CREATE MOMENTS TOGETHER. Typically men do this; out of the blue men would propped a date in some passionate place just for two; a candlelight dinner, with a music in the background or may be a little bit offhand as just walking in Manila Bay at sunset, a picnic at the Park or in the Zoo, for those of smaller budget, but whatever it is what is important is that you make some moments together, because that is what life is all about.

2) Share your dreams and aspirations to your loved one. Your relationship does not consist of you alone so when it comes to your thoughts and aspirations, see if it fits with his. How close or far apart, similar or conflicting are your dreams and his dreams, then you'll know if you are to go on this relationship or not. Never give up a dream just to satisfy your partner's emotional insecurities as this will be the cause of the potential breakdown of your relationship in the end.

3) DON'T NAG. Learn to listen to your partner's side and don't be a faultfinder. Your relationship must have trust in order to have future. Nurture and win trust instead of abusing it.

4) Be a friend first and became lovers later on. Lovers should only be second from friendship to make it continue longer.

Make Up With Your Partner After A Huge Fight

Why saying, "I am sorry" is such a challenging endeavor, especially to someone you still love, care about, and want to be in a relationship with. Apologies are not supposed to be easy, it is hard for us to accept our faults and more so to learn that someone's feelings are hurt, whether it is intentional or not and the reason being you. It is soul-baring indeed. Yet when one accepts one's fault and asks for forgiveness in the right manner, it is definitely powerful and rehabilitative and can win us friends. This Buzzle article addresses the issue of how to make up with your partner after a big fight. It is very important for all to learn this art of making up to your partners to have healthy relationships and avoid a clash of egos in a steady relationship. Scroll down to know more...

Try to show that your love is more important than these petty fights.

Fighting with someone you love, no matter how big or small the issue is, can be quite upsetting. You feel angry, hurt and even say things you do not really mean. Therefore, it is important to make up to your partner, it will help you get over the fight, making your relationship healthier than before. By making up, you indirectly tell the person that their love is important to you than the stupid petty fights. Come up with creative ways to make up to your partner. Even the cliched ones, like sending a bouquet of flowers with a sorry card, can work wonders.

Take responsibility for your part of the fight and say sorry like you really mean it.

Put yourself in your partners shoes and think about your reaction. Try to see your partner's point of view. Arguing, shouting and fighting will not help you reach any conclusion, think with a cool head. If you think even 20% of the entire fight is your mistake, go ahead, apologize for your part and make sure you apologize like you really mean it. Probably, by that time, your partner has also sorted out issues and is willing to compromise, you never know. If you apologize first, it will only make your partner realize that you gave the whole problem a serious thought, and that their views too are respected. Go for a long drive after that and binge on an ice cream!

Wake up early to make a fantastic breakfast with a note that reads, "I am sorry, forgive me.

Usually after a huge fight, even if things are sorted, there is a tense atmosphere, isn't it? That is because you haven't done anything special for your partner after that huge fight. The word is make it up to them. You can wake up a little earlier than your partner and prepare a fantastic breakfast for them, arrange the table and do not forget to place a sorry note or card. A way to anybody's heart (be it man or woman) is through their stomach! This idea really works! The last time my friend's wife was upset, he made it up to her like this and trust me she was in tears, she hugged him and apologized too.

Go away to a romantic place for a couple of days.

Surprise your partner, by taking him/her out to a romantic vacation for a few days. Spend some quality time with your partner and notice how your partner perceives the world differently. This is the essence of every relationship, understand what your partner values, cherishes and expects out of this relation. 90% of fights are caused because of a misunderstanding or difference in opinion. Everybody is different, and to err is human. Try to accept your partner the way he/she is, respect his/her views, be supportive, and if you are wrong don't hesitate to apologize. Because ultimately the very fact that you guys are together is because of the bond of love, try to strengthen it more by spending quality time together and not test it by fighting.

There is nothing quite like making up after a huge fight, it can be the most magical moment. The very reason you make up to someone shows your love and concern for that person. When you apologize, you leave your ego behind and just want the person to forgive you, because for you his/her presence in your life means a lot to you. It makes your relationship stronger than before. So, if you still haven't apologized, go for it, it is really worth the effort!

Give More Love For Your Kids

Last weekend I spent two days at a homeschooling conference. I even ran into a Steady Mom reader there. (Hi Donna! Thanks for saying hello--you made my day.)

I always look forward to this annual retreat as a time to refocus, and this year was no exception. One speaker especially made me think as he shared about the importance of including our children in the details of our everyday lives.

"The only way you'll include them is if you like them." Sounds reasonable, doesn't it? Yet I know I've been through times when I find this to be a challenge. Not all developmental stages are pleasant, are they?How can we love our children in the midst of seasons when their behaviors may not be incredibly likeable?
Here are four strategies I've found helpful.

1. Get out the baby pictures.
Babies are just sweet and kissable. Something about their helplessness endears them to us.I try to start every morning with a quick moment in which I remember what my children were like as babies. Thinking about a few special memories reminds me that my kids are still the same souls they were then, and helps me approach them with more compassion.

There were so many babies and toddlers at the conference I attended--it made me just fall in love with their chubby cheeks and generous smiles. I needed that. (But no, we're not adding to our family, in case you're wondering!!)

2. Be with your children.
"But I'm with them all. the. time!" you might reply. I know, but I'm realizing that often though I'm with them, I'm not with them.

Can you relate? Sometimes I float mentally in and out while crossing off items on my to-do list, only paying attention to the kids when something goes wrong.

Recently I got into the habit of quickly checking my email in the morning. This was before the kids were even awake, so I thought it was fine. What I discovered, though, is that I then started the morning with the children already thinking of other work that needs to be done. Not good.

Our kids reflect what they feel; they mirror what they see in us. If we're not really "with" them, they know it--and sometimes their behavior pleads with us to be present.

3. Hug and kiss more.
This idea could be called "fake it 'til you make it." Some might find this insincere, but I am often amazed that acting loving and affectionate helps you start to actually feel more loving and affectionate.

It can be hard to show affection to a child who has recently angered you, but doing so puts you both on the track of recovery.

4. See the best in them--like you hope they will with you.
Remember when Kat wrote about her daughters' Christmas memories, which were so different from her own?As moms we hope our kids will remember the effort we put in and the love we gave, instead of the times we yelled or made mistakes. Don't we need to do the same for them?

A child who is bossy may have a great capacity for leadership. One who cries easily may have a depth of sensitiviy and compassion. Visualize what you see in them and what it may become in the future. Doing so allows you to grab onto a strand of patience in the present.

It may not seem very "Steady Mom-ish" to admit not liking my children from time to time, but I bet some of you reading can relate. None of us have motherhood completely figured out, but we can find ways to hang on to joy in our day-to-day lives.

Valentine’s Day – What You Can Do For Her Or Him?

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. For those couples out there, are you wondering about the perfect gift for your significant other?  What about those of you just looking for a gift for a good friend or family member to show them your love and appreciation? The typical rose and chocolate combination may seem like a great present, but have you ever thought of other gift ideas? In particular, alternative gifts which are not just eco-friendly and ethically made, but also hold significance, and are creative?

So how many of you planned to give your special ones something special. I am sure, you're tired with all old cards and teddies. They are always cute without any doubt but they are quite old gadgets to show your love. She Exists aims girls so here are a bit different valentine's day gift ideas to improve your day and to make him love you more.

1.) Local florists & Greenhouses – Roses are grown in third world countries where workers are exploited. Also, large amounts of pesticides are used daily. Instead, buy a bouquet of locally grown flowers at your neighbourhood florist or buy seeds to grow together as a surprise! 

2.) Local & Organic restaurants – Search up a new and local restaurant around your area for a fun and healthy dining experience. 

3.) Movie Night – You don’t have to go out to have fun. Stay at home for a comfortable dinner and a rented movie. No car, no emissions.

4.) Chocolate – Chocoholic? Be sure to purchase fair trade or even organic chocolate at your local supermarket. Check out the label and you know one thing is for sure: it’ll taste great!

5.) Make-It-Yourself – What could be more creative than making a gift yourself? Make a pop up card, build a photo collage, sew or knit together a stuffy for your friend, family, or loved one.

6) Jar Full of Romantic Notes

What about giving him a jar, full of romantic notes. Secret messages which you can never tell him loud and small wishes? I am sure he will love to find this unique thing for him and keep it as the best love asset of his love life.

7) The Best Gift is Your Time

The best and all time hot gift is to give your time in the busy routine. Spend an evening with him, just the two of you and make the time for each other. He would love it and love you.

Make your time romantic on this valentine. So What you're planning to give your special one this valentine? Share your responses on this post to send us your feedback and show your participation.

Try something different, explore the alternatives that you can turn to, and make this Valentine’s Day a great one for you, your loved one, and the world. 

Love Is Not Easy

Rather than letting nature takes its course when it comes to falling in love, many needy singles believe that by attaching ourselves to another person, we become instantly whole. Complete. All our needs are met. Case closed. The enticement is too much for the needy to resist. Who can pass up a short-cut, as it were, to personal growth? No wonder so many drink the poison of this lie, one of the most common dating mistakes.
Rebecca sure did. In her late twenties, she was a study in misery. She'd dated Tom a few times in college, but nothing serious ever developed. A few years later, a job brought Tom back to Seattle, where they attended the same church and began palling around. "We're more than friends," is the way she described it. "You could say we're dating, but the sparks aren't really flying, at least for Tom." She talked about how Tom was focused more on his career in marketing than his relationships. In fact, he was now considering moving to Kansas City to enroll in a training program that would make him more attractive to potential employers. That's what brought Rebecca to our office.
After four months of quasi-dating in Seattle, Rebecca was considering a move to Kansas City to be with Tom. "My job is nothing to brag about," she told us, "and I have an aunt in KC who said I could stay in her spare room for a while."
I (Les) thought I might be misunderstanding and asked for some clarification: "You're going to move half way across the country to be near a guy that has made no commitment to your relationship?"
"I know! Isn't it crazy?" Rebecca said with nervous excitement. "But Tom and I were made for each other; he just doesn't know it yet. It probably doesn't make much sense, but it's something I've got to do; I mean, something could really develop between us."
I winced inside, knowing how much she longed for a relationship and how potentially painful such a decision could be. We explored other options for a few minutes, but she wasn't interested. She didn't want advice. Rebecca was headed to Kansas City - following her relocated knight in shining armor - and there was no talking her out of it.
Have you ever seen a scenario like this? It's not unusual. When someone buys into the myth that another person will meet all their needs, they will do almost anything - quit their job, change their appearance, have sex, get pregnant, or travel to the ends of the earth - just to be with them, believing that falling in love with each other is right around the corner. People who believe another person will complete them by meeting all their needs become human chameleons. Remember Zelig from the Woody Allen movie of the same name? He became who everyone around him wanted him to be. He was externally defined, looking to others to tell him who he was. People who believe this lie do the same thing when dating, and mistakes abound. The problem is that chasing after another person to have a relationship that makes you feel better about yourself spells certain disaster. And Rebecca's situation was no exception.

Love And Wedding Are Made In Heaven

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